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Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Talking Dirty or Erotic Talk.  This in-depth course will teach you everything you need to know about how to entice your lover by learning the erotic language of seduction, talking dirty.

Erotic Talk – Learning the Language of Love

Using your mouth and tongue to communicate erotically has the potential to elevate your sexual experience to new levels!  Erotic talk sets the mood for sexual intimacy.

Why Learn the Art of Talking Dirty?

It can make your love life more exciting, creative, and fun.  It creates more intimacy and improves communication.  And since your most erotic sex organ is your brain, a great mind fuck with erotic talk is a perfect start for trying other things.

The act of talking dirty, whether it is with your long-term partner or new play date is a great way to explore new sexual scenarios because it is safe sex, sexually arousing, uninhibited and allows you to play out a...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Foot Fetish.  This in-depth course will teach you everything you need to know about foot fetishes, otherwise known as shrimping or Foot Worship.

What is a Fetish?

A Fetish is an object or bodily part whose real or fantasized presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression.

Degrees of Fetish:

Optional—The fetish is part of a person’s sexual repertoire.

Preferred—Being in active fetishism is better for the individual than not.

Exclusive—In order for the individual to become aroused the object of desire must be incorporated through fantasy and or reality.

What is a Foot Fetish?

As the definition implies, a true foot fetish means inability to be aroused without the presence or fantasy of a foot.  Colloquially people call themselves foot fetishists when feet are objects...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Polyamory.  This in-depth course will teach you everything you need to know about non-monogamy and loving more than one person at a time in your romantic relationships.

What is Polyamory?

Polyamory is the practice of openly and ethically sharing multiple loves.  Unlike traditional forms of polygamy, polyamory is a rather recent cultural invention. People drawn to polyamory believe that natural human desires for more than one partner are best addressed by creating alternative, often utopian, forms of family.

Polyamory Is:

• Responsible, ethical, honest non-monogamy
• A deep, emotional, sometimes physical relationship with more than one partner simultaneously
• Having multiple concurrent loving relationships with the fully informed consent of all parties
• Loving more than one person at the same time, with or without sexual engagement

Polyamory Is Not:

• Cheating: blatant withholding of sexual emotional...

Twenty Tips on How to Become an Amazing Love Coach

As a world renowned Sexologist and Love Coach (voted Sex Coach of the Year 2015 by the Sexual Health Expo), and founder of Loveology University, Dr. Ava Cadell has been mentoring Love Coaching students for many years and has many Love Coach tips!

Here are her top 20 Love Coach tips on how to become a Love Coach!

Twenty Tips on How to Become an Amazing Love Coach:

1. Let clients know your credentials up front, including specialties.
2. Let them know you offer Love Coaching: an interactive role as a coach, not a medical or therapeutic adviser.
3. Find out what your client specifically needs coaching for, by asking key questions.
4. Be truthful and let clients know if they are realistic and if you can help them, rather than disappointing them.
5. Discuss fees and forms of payment up front.
6. Discuss length of time for suggested coaching sessions up front.
7. Have clients fill out and sign a Love Coaching Agreement and Disclaimer before you begin working...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on BDSM & Kink called Power Play.  This in-depth course will teach you all about BDSM, Kink, consent, negotiation, play tools and toys, bondage, sensation play, and so much more!

What is BDSM & Kink?

BDSM is an all-encompassing acronym for sexual power play. It includes power exchange, psychological testing and sensations.  It can include sex or not, but is usually erotic and sensation play based.

As an acronym, it stands for:

BD – Bondage/Discipline

DS- Dominance/submission

SM- Sado/Masochism

This course teaches BDSM & KINK, as a way to explore sexual pleasure with your lover or other play partners, or even just with yourself.

Safety: Safe, Sane & Consensual

One of the most important aspects of BDSM is that it be Safe, Sane & Consensual.

Safe:  Safe means that you play safe with safe equipment and tools so both parties do not get injured.  It means discussing limits and...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Group Sex & Swinging, called Group Erotica – the Mechanics of Multiple Partners.  This in-depth course will teach you all about group sex, swinging, threesomes or ménage a trois, sex etiquette, screening partners, limits, and so much more!

What is Group Sex?

Group sex covers many behaviors, experiences, and expressions of sexuality.  In all cases, though, it involves a number change. Two becomes three or more. Group sex means transcending the partnership into 3, 4, 5 (or more) people interacting sexually.

Group sex is a common fantasy.

It ranks as one of the top fantasies in William Masters and Virginia Johnson’s study of sex and human loving. The fantasy of group sex relates to the fantasy of switching partners.

Watch this Sneak Peek Video on Our Group Sex & Swinging Video Course: Group Erotica Below

Are Your Ready to Try Group Sex or Swinging?

The following questions are...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Masturbation—Self-Pleasure.  This in-depth course will teach you all about masturbation, myths, how to masturbate, self-love, mutual masturbation with your lover, sex toys and so much more!

Masturbation Definition

Masturbation refers to sexual stimulation of one’s own genitals often to the point of orgasm.  It can be performed in numerous ways, using the hands, sex toys, dry humping, aided by sexual fantasies and by many other methods. Masturbation is the most common form of sexual stimulation.  80% of males and 59% of females have masturbated by age 18 and 98% of men and about 95% of women have (or do) masturbate.  The American Medical Association declared masturbation a normal and healthy sexual activity in 1972.

Watch this Sneak Peek Video on Our Masturbation : Self-Pleasure Video Course Below

Masturbation is Good for Your Health!

Did you know that masturbation is actually good...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Tantra — Tantric Love.  This in-depth course will teach you what is tantra, the types and history of Tantra, tantric sex, orgasmic kissing, multiple orgasms, tantric massage, tantric sex positions, and much more!

Watch this Sneak Peek Video on Our Tantra: Tantric Love Video Course Below

What is Tantra?

Many people are unclear about what Tantra is and what it is not.

Tantra is not a religion, a sexual cult, a new age spiritual philosophy, exhibitionism, swinging, or sex therapy.  Tantra is a Sanskrit (ancient Hindu language) word that means to weave energy, specifically Yin (female) and Yang (male) energy, between two lovers.  This energy includes our thoughts, feelings, and physical and sexual actions.

There are different kinds of Tantra, but we are going to focus on Red Tantra, which directs sexual energy to your lover.  So, I’d like to welcome you to a unique journey of...

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on Lesbian Sexuality: Women Loving Women.  This course defines what is a lesbian, sexual orientation, history of lesbianism, stereotypes, dating tips and the different ways that women make love with other women.

Watch this Sneak Peek Video on Our Lesbian Sexuality–Women Loving Women Video Course Below

Lesbian Sexuality: What is Sexual Orientation?

Our genes, hormones, environment, experiences and programming by our peers, all influence our sexual orientation.

What are Lesbian Lovers?

Lesbianism is the romantic and sexual desire between two women.  A lesbian is a woman who experiences Sapphic desire for other women exclusively, but not for men.  A Bisexual woman is a female who is sexually attracted to both men and women to various degrees.  A lesbian need not act upon her desires to identify as Lesbian, and may even be celibate or in a long term relationship with a man.  In other...

Male Sexuality

Welcome to Loveology University’s Video Course on Male Sexuality.

Our comprehensive course on Male Sexuality will teach you all about male sexuality and penis health, as well as how to deal with male sexual issues such as lasting longer, performance issues, stamina, erectile dysfunction and more.  Read on for some penis exercises below!

Watch this Sneak Peek Video on Our Male Sexuality Course Below

The Penis Workout (Excerpt from Course on Male Sexuality)
by Dr. Ava Cadell

It’s a known fact.  As we get older, we get shorter, literally shrinking in height.  However, some people who stick to a strict workout regimen, including exercises such as stretching, yoga, or Pilates, can avoid shrinkage and enhance their overall health.  The same can be said about the penis.  If you don’t stretch and exercise, your penis will be smaller, operating at less than its fullest potential.  There is plenty of extra skin and tissue at the...