How to Please a Man Sexually in Bed

Welcome to Loveology University’s sneak preview video course on How to Please a Man.  This in-depth course will teach you everything you need to know about turning him on and getting him off, plus how to keep him coming back for more.

Pleasing a man can be a very rewarding experience.  You have the power to become the ideal partner and lover that every man wants!

What do Men Want for a Sexual Partner

In general men want a caretaker, lover, and friend.  Here are also some qualities that some men find attractive:

• Open Communication
• Someone who takes initiative
• Someone adventurous
• Affection
• Someone thoughtful
• Open-mindedness
• Self-confidence
• Appreciation
• Physical Attraction
• Comfort
• Love

Male Generalizations to Keep in Mind:

• Men tend to focus on achievement and accomplishment.
• Men have 20 times more testosterone (male sex hormone) than women. Testosterone is linked to assertive and dominant behavior.
• Men’s fantasies include images of sexual body parts and they focus on orgasm.
• Men’s primary sense is visual, which is why so many men enjoy watching porn.
• Men’s fantasies include images of sexual body parts and they focus on orgasm.
• Men like to hear graphic sexual words during sex.
• Modern man still has the innate programming from his caveman era to hunt and spread his seed.

How to Please Your Man in Bed

The best way to learn what your man wants in the bedroom is to ask!  That simple.  And, while it may sound simple, it can often be hard to talk about sex in relationships.  Here are tips to get you started.

• Ask first before surprising him.
• Use active listening: Give him time to respond, and don’t interrupt.
• Seek to understand, don’t judge.  Show him respect.
• Talk about boundaries, sexual fantasies, turn-ons and turn-offs.

How to Turn Him On

There are many ways you turn your partner on.  Of course, make sure to use communication to find out what he likes first.  But here are a few other ideas you can try.

Talking dirty, before or during sex.  Tell him all the naughty things you want to do to him and all the things you want him to do to you.

Love his cock!  Guys can be very sensitive when it comes to their penis.  So, don’t ever treat it like it is some alien creature.  Show them how much you love it!  Touching it, looking at it, tasting it, making love to it.

Praise him, compliment him and thank him for all the wonderful things he does for you.  Men respond very well to praise and appreciation, bot in and out of the bedroom.

Dress sexy for them.  If you feel good and confident about yourself sexually, that confidence will shine through.  Plus, you give them some eye candy to enjoy.

Be open about what you like sexually, don’t play games, play hard to get or be coy.

During sex and oral sex, stare into his eyes, be enthusiastic, and show him how much he turns you on.

Try full body, naked, erotic massage (called Nuru Massage), an erotic striptease, be spontaneous, initiate sex yourself, and mix things up.

Try something kinky!  Of course, discuss your fantasies with him first, but be open to new ideas to explore together in the bedroom.

How to Please a Man Video Course Sneak Peek

Today’s sneak peek video is all about How to Please a Man, a comprehensive digital course that will teach you everything you need to know about how to be an expert at seducing man and giving him pleasure, available via our Certified Love Coach program!

This exclusive How to Please a Man course includes a Narrated Multimedia Video Course on How to Please a Man, Video Training: Erotic Massage: How to Convey Love Through Mindful Touches with Jaiya (performed by a woman on a man) (36 minutes), an E-book: The Loveologist Guide to What Men Want In Bed (19 pages, estimated time to complete: 37 minutes), Plus!, you will learn:

• Pleasing a Man
• What a Man Needs
• Male Generalizations
• The Best Way
• Safer Sex
• 10 Ways to Increase His Love
• Please Him by Sharing
• Communication
• Fantasies & Role Playing
• Boundaries
• Erotic Talk
• Physically Pleasing Him
• Male Anatomy
• Erotic Touch
• Sexual Massage
• Oral Delights
• Quickies
• Anal Pleasure
• Prostate Massage
• TriGasm
• More Ways to Please
• 20 Steps to Fidelity
• 3 Secrets to Pleasing a Man

This video is just a small component of our comprehensive Certified Love Coach program that will teach you everything you need to know about sexual pleasure, arousal, orgasms, sexual anatomy, how to please and man and a woman, as well as how to overcome relationship obstacles and so much more.

Take a look at our Certified Love Coach program NOW to see all of the courses available when you sign up to become a Certified Love Coach!